mummy power!

i had a long long day today....

Mummy power 2:
we dragged our assess to my MIL's place at like 1am to Gua Sha for her, as she has been complaining of bad aches and pain.

so as with gua sha, if u have like "clots" or "sandy" sections it will be pink, red, bruised and blue black... according to the increasing degree of seriousness... after 1 hour of gua-ing for her, she had many patches or bruised and blue black patches all over her body, arms n legs... this really made me feel very 心酸

though i was very tired, was most happy to hear that she felt much better and had a great rest that night.


Mummy power 1:
started with last night, got an sms from my aunt regarding the delay of her maintenance for smelly2. over the years, she has thrown stomping fits and cracked jokes about it. I'm very proud of my yee2 for all e years she has been through, slogging to bring her daughter up from the days we were staying together. i guess our close bond grew from there... and when i see her juggling to work and at the same time raise a family, i've always known how hard it is... despite my many many a time advice, she refused to get an official summon on the defaulting payments, taking into the consideration of smelly's feelings. Yet although at this very tough time, she still held back. Perhaps i had to be e bad person, telling her e worse of possible senarios but at the end of the day it is a simple matter of responsibility and DISCIPLINE!... and the possible light at the end of the tunnel, good riddance to the regular nonsense.

u can:
- buy your season parking on time
- pay e banks on time, if not late penalty charges...
- settle bills on time, water lar, electricity and nonsense?

isn't this e same?

if not in full, at least partial? or be nice enough to call and explain? ... 1 month late is acceptable. not two or more..
e nice lady in court asked, "why wait until now?" when my aunt told me e amount of money she had left in her bank i know of the strain and e stress. hopefully this serves as a wake up call and a sign of our protection for my smelly.

My offer for u will always stand, in any event of 3 long 2 short. i will sell my house, pawn my ass to send your kids to havard.

Mummy power 3

The difficult time for my sister. She is giving up custody of all 4 kids. For the sake of a more comfortable life for them, as bro in law can be a better provider. The 3 girls will have a difficult time as they are all very attached to the mummy and boy is still so young. It seems to be inevitable at this point in time. I can only be the 24 hr standby 阿姨 for them. hopefully my input can make it easier for them all.

At the end of the day, my sister has already been very deeply hurt. and will be some more.


i am glad that this is the quality of life i have now, e slight luxury of time i can give to my family in little bits...
I'm not a mean bunny, but i will (Chiong Tau cheng) if anyone bullies my family. i look at the people around and see the amount and extend of the love each of them have for their children. It is a very hard road and very very long.... makes me wonder, if one day i were a mummy, am i capable of such sacrifices and if i will ever possess that kind of love...

nitess.... opps good morning again.