above and below 30

Over coffee the weekend with a j over at cosy bay in the freezin tower we were talking about everything under e stars from her lovely daughter to work n to the not so happenings of our current lives.

I was reminded of a conversation i had with Comid. He being the ever encouragin kind soul he was, was trying to change my perspective of dating. I told him i can't handle young man ie, below 30 but then he doesn't think the above 30 men are suitable for me. Both which, i have slowly come to realised it's true. Men below 30 are generally not ready to settle down. and yes, i still do remember the the exact words that still ring and sting. "i'm only xx yrs but i feel like i'm fuking tied down, and married" I'm can't handle this kind of relationship....".

The Men above 30, as my mazda neighbour kindly puts it.. :" The goods ones are married or accounted for... i so totally agree. Comid himself being the most classic example. No matter how deep stuck are they in the grand canyon in, they will still hang on for they cannot be irresponsible and waste other people's time n youth. If responsibility is all that binds 2 people and u have fallen for someone else and u could definately be happier whether or not that works out. Why are u still hanging on? Which is what i could never understand....

So after countless sessions on the same topic, we have never been able to come to a conclusion. Now i just have to date really young boys like mr bow tie or really, really much older men like in their 40s to past time and hopefully i get to like 30-ish and things start looking up!